The Pause
"Pause. Breathe. Repair your universe. Proceed." It has been a bit since my last post. The reason for this is a pause. After my DBT group ended, my therapist moved from the practice. So far I have been assigned to two other therapists that have also left the practice. While this could be a source of frustration or depression for me, it has been a practice in wise-mind, in the pause. One of the major aspects of DBT (Dialectic Behavior Therapy) and mindfulness practice is being able to be comfortable in the pause. Had someone told me even a year ago that I would be sitting here, calmly writing a blog post about embracing the times of pause, I would have laughed. I am notorious for chattering, fidgeting, and becoming excessively nervous in any kind of pause. I fill the pause. If I don't, nervous energy builds up inside and I become even more socially awkward. In that moment I feel all att...